You then, my son, be strong in the grace that is in Christ Jesus. And the things you have heard me say in the presence of many witnesses entrust to reliable people who will also be qualified to teach others. Join with me in suffering, like a good soldier of Christ Jesus. No one serving as a soldier gets entangled in civilian affairs, but rather tries to please his commanding officer. Similarly, anyone who competes as an athlete does not receive the victor’s crown except by competing according to the rules. The hard-working farmer should be the first to receive a share of the crops. Reflect on what I am saying, for the Lord will give you insight into all this.  2 Timothy 2:1 – 7

A temptation that all leaders face is to insist on obedience.  Paul counsels young Timothy to resist that temptation, but to “be strong in the grace that is in Christ Jesus.”  Jesus offered grace, but never forced his point. We should do the same.  I sometimes find myself tempted to use my power as a parent, teacher, writer to almost compel people to do what I say.  After all, I am called of God to help others. I see that Paul is not encouraging young Timothy to be a stronger teacher or a stronger disciplinarian, but to be strong in the grace that is in Christ Jesus.  Grace does not compel, it invites and blesses.  Lord, teach me this every day!

I notice that Paul does not invite Timothy to join him in slaying the enemy!  No, he encourages him to learn suffering!  I do not find that a pleasant thought, but as I look back on my own walk with the Lord, that is the call, to suffer with and for Him. For in suffering with and for Christ we lose ourselves in his love.

I hear the Spirit say, “Serve Jesus and no other.”  “Obey the rules.”  “Work hard.” Then the Lord leaves us with the offer to be with us as we reflect on these words and word pictures.  “The Lord will give you insight into all this.” We embrace these truths as the Spirit enables us.  This world cannot believe this is true.  I know that the teaching of the Apostle is true. I live it every day by the grace that is in Christ Jesus.  I stumble but I know the way.