On this eve of Grandpa’s birthday

Jane J Stoltzfus 

Posted by Jane on Facebook July 5, 2020

On this eve of Grandpa’s birthday, Grandma and I thought it would be fun to share some of Grandpa’s wisdom. Many many years ago, but she still hears from people who have put these up somewhere as reminders, he wrote a list of ways to adapt in a new culture. Grandma was thinking this time of pandemic is like a new place we are living in and it might be good to review Grandpa’s words.

PROVERBS FOR GUESTS

I have tried to discover how to live happily and positively in East Africa, and a few things, upon reflection, seem evident.

I. The psychological space which one is given to occupy in a host culture is usually limited. Discovering what that space is in which you can be free is essential for happy living. Said in another way, there are some things you can change and some things you cannot change. One thing can always be changed, though, your attitude toward that which you cannot change. Therefore, ponder the dynamics of your situation. Choose very carefully the battles you wish to spend your strength on, because many tempting battles are not worth the time it takes to gird your loins. Occupy the space given you. It is big enough.

II. Enjoy and affirm people. Let everyone share his/her life with you. People were meant to enrich your life. Do not hinder their entree. Every person is God’s gift to you.

III. Refuse to be a carrier of negative feelings. Accept a problem, try to understand it in its context, make a decision about it, and then wash out the feelings which that problem generated in you. Do no let the dye of one problem rub off on the next. Pray deliberately for this kind of liberation.

IV. Invest your energies in people. Don’t try to perfect the “machine”. It probably won’t run the same after you are gone anyway because you make off with the oil can and instructions. And expect perfection in no-one but yourself.

V. Don’t brood, ponder.

VI. Anxiety is like an internal hemorrhage, it saps your strength before you know what’s happening. Concentrate on the “now” and enjoy it fully. Anxiety’s child is discouragement which in turn produces bitterness. And when you examine your anxieties, you find yourself at the center rather than Jesus and others. Anxiety is simply pride worrying!

VII. Don’t let your joy have any connection with how your enterprise is going, whether it is how your cabbages are growing or how your staff is shaping up. Your joy is a state of your spirit.

VIII. Forgive yourself so you can forgive others. Never reverse the order. Blessed are the forgiven one.

IX. Keep your idealism but let it be your servant, not your master. Temper your expectations with reality.

X. If you can smile inwardly when things are “dumb”, you are near to the kingdom.

XI. Affirm not only the Jesus of History but Jesus who lives with you by faith. Refuse to think a thought or do a deed which would hurt or embarrass Him. Enlarge His presence in your soul. Live so that you hardly know where Jesus stops and you begin.

XII. Flaunt your great knowledge discreetly. Remember, the people do not care how much you know, they want to know how much you care.

-Don Jacobs, Nairobi (14th July, 1973)

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Mennonite World Review Article

EMM worker and his students shaped African theology

Influential educator in East Africa dies at 91

Mar 23, 2020 by  and 

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Donald R. Jacobs, a missionary educator for 20 years in East Africa, where he was the last American Mennonite bishop in Tanzania and founded a Mennonite theological college, died Feb. 11 in Leola, Pa. He was 91.

Jacobs

Jacobs served with Eastern Mennonite Missions in Tanzania and Kenya from 1953 to 1973 and as EMM’s overseas director in Salunga, Pa., from 1973 to 1980.

“Don transformed the Mennonite Bible College into the Mennonite Theological College of Eastern Africa,” said Nelson Kisare, bishop of the eastern diocese of Tanzania Mennonite Church. “All of the current bishops were his former students or passed through the college.”

Serving with his wife, Anna Ruth, as a teacher and administrator in what was then the British-controlled territory of Tanganyika, Jacobs became principal of the Mennonite Bible School at Bukiroba in 1957, though he was younger than most of the students.

“I shifted from being a teacher of a subject to being a willing learner myself, eager to go deeper into the realities and mysteries of African cultures,” he wrote in his memoir, What a Life.

EMM President Gerry Keener remembers Jacobs as an enthusiastic preacher and insightful anthropologist.

“It was his recognition of the spirit world in Eastern African religious experience that helped him better contextualize the gos­pel for the people of Tanzania and Kenya,” Keener said.

During a furlough in the U.S., Jacobs earned a Ph.D. in cultural anthropology from New York University and returned to Africa with a goal to establish the first Mennonite, English-speaking theological college in Tanganyika. Mennonite Theological College of Eastern Africa continued until 1981 and reopened in 1991.

Zedekia Kisare, the first African Mennonite bishop and uncle of Nelson Kisare, wrote in his 1984 autobiography that Jacobs’ respect for African traditions changed how students understood their faith.

“We [had] accepted the missionaries’ assessment of our traditional beliefs, and we actually thought that as Christians we had cleansed ourselves of all traditional influences,” Kisare wrote. “Don Jacobs changed all of this for us. . . . The first year he taught us African traditional theology. . . . [This] had never been discussed with the missionaries except in terms of rejecting it. Now Jacobs taught it as though he himself were an African traditionalist. . . . He helped us to understand ourselves.”

The signs burst forth

David Shenk, an EMM global consultant, said Jacobs introduced the concept of letting theology begin within the context.

“The starting point was signs of the gospel within the local culture and then freeing those signs to burst forth,” Shenk said. “. . . The Bible college students with Don decided that the soul of theology in the Tanzania Mennonite Church would be the three confessions of faith: first, the Apostles Creed; second, the Lord’s Prayer; and third, a Trinitarian song. That simple step has been the foundational rock of the church, for every Tanzanian Mennonite church at their Sunday morning worship recites those three confessions.”

Jacobs was born July 6, 1928, near Johnstown, Pa., to Paul and Trella Jacobs. He married Anna Ruth Charles in 1949.

He graduated from Eastern Mennonite High School and received a master’s degree in history from the University of Maryland. He taught for three years at Lancaster Mennonite School.

After serving in Tanzania, the Jacobs family moved to Kenya, where he helped to set up a religious studies department at the University of Nairobi and taught there for six years.

He was a bishop in the Tanzania Mennonite Church, the last American to serve in that role.

From 1980 until retirement he was engaged in leadership development internationally with Mennonite Christian Leadership Foundation.

He was a member of Chestnut Hill Mennonite Church in Columbia, Pa.

He is survived by his wife, Anna Ruth; four children, Jane (Glenn Stoltzfus), David, Alan and Paul (Tammy Smith); 10 grandchildren and eight great-grandchildren.

 

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Donald R. Jacobs

Donald R. Jacobs
Donald R. Jacobs

Donald R. Jacobs, 91, died February 11 in the family home in Leola, where he lived his active retirement years since 2002 with his beloved wife, Anna Ruth. During his passing, Don was surrounded by his loving family as he went through several months of sudden health challenges.

He was married to Anna Ruth Charles in 1949, and they celebrated 70 years of marriage in December last year. Their four children are Jane (Glenn Stoltzfus), David, Alan and Paul (Tammy Smith). He is the grandfather of 10 and great-grandfather of 8. Don had 6 brothers and 4 sisters, of whom 6 survive.

He was born near Johnstown, Pennsylvania, son of Paul and Trella Jacobs.

Don was a life-long teacher and learner. He once said that every person he met was his teacher. His teaching career began in Coffee Creek, KY where he taught for two years in an elementary school. He taught for three years at Lancaster Mennonite School. In 1954, he and Anna Ruth went to Tanzania under Eastern Mennonite Mission Board. There he taught in a teacher training college and in a theological college.

From Tanzania the family moved to Kenya where Don helped to set up a religious studies department at the University of Nairobi and then taught there for six years. Along with teaching Don also carried some administrative responsibilities, as well as serving as bishop in the Tanzania Mennonite Church for two years.

The family moved to the U.S. in 1973 where Don was Director of Overseas Missions in the Eastern Mennonite Mission Board office. From 1980 until his retirement Don was engaged in leadership development internationally with Mennonite Christian Leadership Foundation.

Don graduated from Eastern Mennonite High School, received a B.S. in history from Franklin and Marshall College, an M.A. in history from the University of Maryland, a Ph. D. in Anthropology from New York University and a British teaching qualification from University of London.

Life to Don was about relationships, starting with his relationship with his Lord. That gave meaning to his total life, with his blood family, his spiritual family, and acquaintances. He was warmly welcoming and embraced those who came into his life.

Don was an active member of Chestnut Hill Mennonite Church.

Don’s memorial service will be held at Landisville Mennonite Church, 3320 Bowman Road, Landisville, PA, 17538, on Saturday, February 29. There will be a visitation on Friday evening from 6:00 to 8:00 PM and a visitation on Saturday morning from 9:30 to 10:30 AM followed by a memorial service.

Instead of flowers, please consider a donation to Hospice & Community Care, PO Box 4125, 685 Good Drive, Lancaster, PA 17604 or to the Jacobs Family East African Education Foundation, which was set up by Don and Anna Ruth for the sole purpose of Christian education for students in Tanzania and Kenya during the next 20 years. Checks payable to: Everence Foundation, Memo line/note: Donald R. and Anna Ruth Jacobs Family Endowment Fund. Mail to: Everence Foundation, Attn: Michelle Newswanger, 960 East Main St., Mount Joy, PA 17552. Furman’s – Leola

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Enjoying the days

Good morning our friends and family!  And a Happy New Year, almost!  We are well and praising!  Our Christmas was a delight.  We feel blessed beyond measure!

We extend our love and mutual compassion to all at this time of the year, when we celebrate 70 years of married life together.  We feel God’s tender mercies – heaps of them!

May God bless us all!

Don

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Wedding Day

70 years ago!  Our journey began – as we walked out on life with God anew!

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UPDATE

This is December 18.  I went through some tests and naughty stuff, I call them, and am feeling a bit better now.  The major work was on m blood whose red corpuscle count I am trying to push up.

God is good, always.  I will try to keep in touch now.

 

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December 3rd

For those who are still checking in.  I am well in spite of challenges.  God is as good as ever!

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My all in all, forever!

No temptation has overtaken you except what is common to mankind. And God is faithful; he will not let you be tempted beyond what you can bear. But when you are tempted, he will also provide a way out so that you can endure it.

I Corinthians 10:13

I have had the joy and heartache of walking with Jesus for almost all my life – since I was 16.  That is precious beyond measure.

As I sit here, I am well aware of the fact that my life is in the hands of my loving Lord.  I have passed through many trials and joys in my lifetime.  Now I am just resting on the Everlasting Arms!

I am weak, God is faithful! That is my song, always and forever.

He promises me with a way out, so I can endure the struggle.  What more can I ask, or pray for?  Jesus is my all in all, forever.

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Pushing through tough times physically.

Dear Dr. Glenn is helping us so much!  Tonight he removed the catheter that was in almost a week.  What a relief!

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